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The chapter connects inner resolve with relational practice. Beginning a difficult conversation with attention to the other person can change its tone, but intention also requires attention to power and who receives recognition. Theresa’s support network matters because individual resilience alone cannot carry every institutional burden. Her account encourages leaders to notice patterns of exclusion, cultivate trustworthy colleagues, and align everyday communication with the larger mission of their work.
A practice to try
Before a difficult conversation, write its purpose, the relationship you want to sustain, and one opening question that expresses sincere concern. Afterwards, reflect on whether your actions matched that purpose.
School or classroom
Notice whose contribution is interrupted or overlooked during classroom collaboration.
University or college
Create peer support for people navigating a department in which their identity or experience is underrepresented.
Organization or community
Review meeting participation and recognition; make room for voices that are routinely discounted.
Reflection questions from the book
Resilience in Leadership
Theresa speaks about resilience as a core aspect of leadership, particularly as she navigates challenges in a male-dominated field. Reflect on a time when you had to demonstrate resilience in your personal or professional life. What strategies or support systems helped you persist? How did that experience shape your understanding of leadership and resilience?
The Role of Intentionality
Theresa’s journey highlights the importance of being intentional in conversations and interactions, especially as a leader. Think about a time when you were intentional in how you approached a difficult conversation or situation. How did your intentionality impact the outcome? How can you bring more intentionality into your daily interactions moving forward?
Navigating Non-Dominant Spaces
Theresa’s experience as a woman leader in a predominantly male environment shows the complexities of navigating non-dominant spaces. Have you ever been in a situation where you felt like your voice or perspective was undervalued? How did you respond, and what did you learn from the experience about advocating for yourself and others?
Community as a Source of Strength
Theresa credits her "cheering section" of female friends for providing her with the support and encouragement to navigate challenges. Reflect on the role of community in your life. Who are the people that uplift and support you during difficult times? How can you strengthen or expand your support network to ensure you have the resources you need to thrive?
Companion guidance by Scott Simpson and Sharla Steever. Consult the book alongside these resources; activities and summaries do not replace the complete book.