CircleBridge bookExplore the concept
Speaking from the center of one’s experience allows difference to be present without turning every story into a debate. The authors encourage “I” statements and distinguish listening from endorsing. Respect does not erase one’s ethical commitments; it changes how those commitments are expressed and when a response is appropriate. Within a reflective circle, participants can hear another account while doing their own sifting. In decision-making or academic inquiry, name the shift to a different mode so the expectations are clear.
A practice to try
Replace a general accusation with a specific observation and an “I” statement about its effect. Leave room for the other person’s account.
Explore it in the book
Companion guidance by Scott Simpson and Sharla Steever. Consult the book alongside these resources; activities and summaries do not replace the complete book.